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I'm not a particularly good person. Truth be told, not sure I ever was.

I remember volunteering for the rescue squad as a young man, or working as a deputy - I'd be sitting there waiting for something to happen. Wanting it too. Shame on me, at a certain level, wishing it.

Not because I wished ill on others; just that I was an adrenalin junkie, looking for excitement. Wanting to be the hero, there to save the day. It gave me meaning, purpose, comradery with like minded souls. And there was more than one of us. We'd share tales of our adventures, the good we'd done, the risks we'd taken. The fact we were there to tell it, let everyone know to a degree, it was a story with a happy ending. At least for me.

As I got older, and more responsible for things, I was happier when a shift went by, and NOTHING happened. Again, to a degree, selfishly. But also, to a degree, more maturely. Because I'd come to realize a truth.

The best emergencies are the ones that don't happen. The car whose brakes don't give out, the driver who isn't drunk, the house that doesn't catch on fire, the depression treated before the suicide. All better outcomes.

That's a better way. Doesn't make as good a TV movie, or tale that an adventurer can later spin about vicariously being present during someone else's worst moments - even when "helping", but overall - better.

So when I see Mr Kenney's well meaning column the other day, or this more factual one this morning of the need, and the good work being done to address it - I get it. And to a seriously intended extent, I wish them, and all of those helping, well and congratulations. I'll often still join them, in my own way.

I remember feeling similarly back home, when the annual column would come out talking about RAM in the coalfields. Ever heard of it? Remote access medical care, nice acronym. Easy to remember. Good people volunteering to bring things like dental care or minimal healthcare once a year to the needy. Those folks would wait in line too for things like false teeth so they could eat their food, or to have a tooth removed so they didn't scream in pain as they did.

The work was good, the people grateful.

But when I do, I find I cannot help but want to apply that wisdom that I found over the years. And thus feel the need to ask questions which I know break the mood, but still are worth asking.

As worthy as this work is, wouldn't it be better if it were LESS needed? Isn't that, shouldn't THAT be the better system?

Isn't there a better way?

If I take Mr Davis's numbers correctly (which I have no reason to doubt), 1/10th of our fellow citizens is receiving food assistance. Another 30% need it but are not receiving it; either thru choice, pride, or ignorance. Which means 4 out of 10 Virginians live with food insecurity.

40%.........

More than 1 out of every 3 people you meet in this state will have times when they are not sure if they can put food on the table. If it were half of that, wouldn't it still be an outrage?

So by all means, give and help as you can. Not only here though. Vote for those looking to enact policies which improve those numbers. The status quo isn't working.

Mr Kenney will proclaim from the mountain tops that Tara Durant is "nice". That Rob Wittman is "great". And Trump is just misunderstood by the mean old leftists* (*-defined as anyone not bowing to his party's kult god).

Yeah, maybe. If you say so, bud.

All I know is people waiting hours on end in line in cars (the ones lucky enough to have cars), like scenes from Soviet Russia, is hardly evidence that the current system is working.

We don't just live in a Tale of Two Cities, but one of two worlds.

Side by side, and rarely the twain does meet. Moving farther away with every day. Only seeing each other on holidays, while one bends their knees in hope of the other's indulgences. The other feeling so good about themselves, once it is done.

But wouldn't the best way be if next year, there were fewer cars that felt the need to be in line? And the next year, fewer still?

So yes, do the needed work of feeding folks for today. Please.

But vote and work so next year, your generosity is not as needed. Other countries do a better job of meeting the needs of their citizens systematically, without shame. Societies that see tending basic needs as promoting the general welfare, as we claim is the most basic purpose of our society.

We've tried the Republican way of Mr Kenney, Trump, Youngkin, and Wittman. It isn't working.

Else why was the line of cars so long?

You've taken the step of going to help those in need yesterday. Good for you. Take the extra steps to fix the underlying cause. Because the best emergencies are the ones that never happen.

Merry Christmas.

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Leigh Anne Van Doren's avatar

What a wonderful and sad story. The loss of pandemic funding has many families in hard places.

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